August 19, 2023

Tractor Troubles

When we neglect the things that we purportedly love, it is only a matter of time before there is an existential breakdown. Marriage needs attention if it is to give couples the dreams they desire.
May 6, 2023

The Adventure Challenge

Christian marriage needs adventure to stay poised to impact the Kingdom for Christ. Rigidity and unwillingness to stray far from one's comfort zone are hallmarks of stuck marriages. Every marriage needs an adventure challenge.
December 31, 2022

It’s a Question of Blood Flow

The blood of Christ is not flowing well in marriage. Our power as believers is in the shed blood of Jesus. The blood never loses its power. But, what happens when the blood of Christ cannot flow in your marriage because husbands and wives are cold towards each other?
November 4, 2022

Where Do Lost Socks Go?

Dirty Laundry The black laundry basket full of clean laundry had been sitting there in the middle of the laundry room for a few days waiting for some attention–my attention. Day after day, I gave […]
September 27, 2022

Is Your Marriage on The Shelf?

Screwed Up One evening last week as I returned home from my local Starbucks where I was working on finalizing a lot of Eusebeia details, I put my key in the door lock, turned the […]
August 18, 2022

The Bikers’ Guide to Marital Abundance

““The time will come,” says the Lord, “when the grain and grapes will grow faster than they can be harvested.” — Amos 9:13 When Dalia and I first married thirty-four years ago, we purchased a […]
June 7, 2022

Marriage in the Hands of an Angry God

The Great Awakening The date was July 8th, 1741 when one of Christianity’s most renowned preachers, Jonathan Edwards, took the pulpit in Enfield Connecticut to deliver what is arguably the most famous sermon ever preached […]
May 21, 2022

Finding Direction in Delight

Taking the Road Less Traveled As I slowly turned left off of the two-lane road into the long winding driveway, I was expecting to see large welcoming signage informing me of my arrival on the […]
March 12, 2022

How to Handle Total Loss

The Accident I climbed into my car for what was supposed to be a thirty-five-minute drive to my urologist’s office for my six-month checkup. As I was driving down a major surface street about five […]
January 1, 2022

Once a Slave, Twice Set Free

Over the past 5 years, I have touted Eusebeia as “a spiritual revival for Christian marriage”. However, it has only been since 2019 that we have truly begun to understand where the Holy Spirit is […]
September 22, 2021

Why we had to go back to school

This past Labor Day holiday weekend, Dalia and I spent a few days in one of our favorite spots in Maryland, Solomon’s Island which sits right by the intersection of the beautiful Chesapeake Bay and […]
August 19, 2021

Are you your Partner’s best cheerleader?

School has started and hopefully, the kids are back in person and able to participate in activities with their friends. Having observed most of the different sports training programs, I would have to say that […]
August 19, 2021

Olympic Marriage

Just a couple of weeks ago, we watched the closing ceremonies of the Olympic games. As Dalia can attest from my incessant watching, I (Harold) absolutely love the Olympics. My favorite is track and field. […]
August 19, 2021

Marriage for Freedom

It is July–more than halfway through the year. When, I think of July two specific things come to mind. First, I think of Dalia and my wedding anniversary. Two weekends ago (July 16) our marriage […]
August 19, 2021

Graduation Day for Marriage

This past weekend as we celebrated Memorial Day, Dalia and I enjoyed a restful respite away in Birdsboro, PA about an hour and a half from our home. One evening during our stay we were […]
May 16, 2021

Who Follows Your Marriage?

A Great Marriage that Never Was For Dalia and me this year of 2021 has been the most fascinating and exciting of almost thirty-three years of marriage. In many ways, it feels utterly surreal. In […]
April 11, 2021

How to Avoid Cheap Grace in Your Marriage

Lent is an important time of year because it sets the stage for the most significant event in the history of the Church–the death and resurrection of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. We call […]
April 11, 2021

The Miseducation of Marriage

I’d like to open this article with a biblical passage that amplifies an area that I have been focused on this year, namely the spiritual disciplines. So let us stop going over the basic teachings […]